6 Perks of living in small-town France

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As a teen growing up in suburban New Jersey, my friends and I would often complain about how there was nothing to do and how our town was so boring. But now looking back, I appreciate my childhood so much more than I did in the moment. While my hometown may have been “boring” through a child’s eyes, it had a lot of great things going for it like top-notch public schools, a safe community and more. Now it’s 2016 and I find myself living in a small town once again — just across the Atlantic ocean this time. How does it compare? And what can my adult self appreciate about small-town living?

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Perks of living in small-town France

I don’t live in Paris and never have. The only big city I’ve ever lived in is New York City (best city in the world!) and while big-city living has its advantages, as a foreigner there are also perks to living in a small town. I’ve lived in the Maine-et-Loire department of France for just over 4 years now and my town isn’t rural by any means but it’s not a bustling big city either. There are pros and cons to both big-city and small-town living but let’s focus on the positives here!

Here are the perks of living in small-town France:

You’re forced to speak French.

Sometimes expats in big cities say that it’s hard to learn the local language because natives want to practice English with them or they’re surrounded by other English-speaking expats. Or they’ll remark that natives will switch to English after realizing the foreigner’s level in the native language is below their level of English. But in small-town France? Most people do not speak English at all so French will be a necessity. While scary at first, being forced to speak the language is most definitely a good thing. It makes you step outside of your comfort zone and we all need that every now and again.

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It’s less overwhelming.

Loud, packed full of people, smelly and sensory overload galore. Big cities are overwhelming enough when they’re in your own country, but add in a new culture and language and they can be crippling at times if you’re a foreigner. A smaller town can be easier to navigate and acclimate yourself to when you aren’t surrounded by millions of other people all trying to get from one place to another. The pace of a small town can also be easier to handle.

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It’s quiet.

City living isn’t for everyone and there’s something to be said about peace and quiet and waking up to birds chirping outside your window. Stillness around you makes it so much easier to calm a busy mind and just be. Honking horns, people yelling, loud music and other city sounds just aren’t part of my life anymore on a regular basis and I have no complaints!

It’s more affordable.

Generally speaking, you get more for your money when you don’t live in a major city so instead of paying $2000/month for a studio, you can get a whole 2-bedroom place for much less! Of course this depends on where you live and what your personal needs are. Groceries, restaurant prices and even transport tend to be less expensive as well when you don’t live in a huge city.

You get to experience the charm.

OK, it’s not that Paris doesn’t have any French charm but spending time in a little village in Provence will leave you with a much different vibe than staying in a global city. You’ll see more mom and pop shops that close for lunch (it’s quaint but there’s also a flip side since you can’t get anything done at lunch) and everyday French people going about their lives at a much slower pace than you would in Paris. Smaller villages just ooze with French charm in a way that Paris does not. It doesn’t make them better, just different. Both experiences are worthwhile!

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You may make more authentic connections.

In a busy city, you’re just one of hundreds of foreigners that business owners will see each day. You can absolutely get to know people you see regularly at the pharmacy and bakery, but you’ll probably have to go there daily for a bit before anyone will take notice of you. In a smaller town, everything is more relaxed and you’ll get to know the people you see every day much quicker. That’s not to say that tourists in Paris don’t become friendly with their local boulanger but it just seems to happen much more quickly and regularly when you live in a small town. They may not know you by name but you’ll start to recognize people around you who seem to have the same routine. For me? That lady in the park that always seems to powerwalk at 10am sharp when I’m out with the dog. The realtor who takes his smoke break at 6:15 when I’m walking to the gym. The cashier who works at Intermarche self-checkout. The list goes on.

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Do you live in a small town? Any positives to add?

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  • Jackie

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    Yes, I live in a small town. A positive is the city services are better.

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  • Lillian @ The Smalls Abroad

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    It’s so true… as much as I love Paris I wouldn’t be the least bit sad if we had to move to a small town. I’m sure it’s harder at first but once you’re settled it’s very rewarding experience. I can’t wait to move somewhere again where I don’t constantly hear road traffic.
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  • CatherineRose

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    Question about living in a small town – do fewer people smoke? The number one thing I hate about living in France is that I can’t leave the house without choking on cigarette smoke, but I wonder how much of that is due to living in the city (even though there is definitely a major cultural divide when it comes to attitudes about smoking). When I visit my belle-famille in a small town, I don’t feel like fewer people smoke necessarily – I see lots of people in the town center lighting up – but because we’re not in close proximity with other people like we are in the city, it’s not a constant annoyance. How is it where you live?
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    • Diane

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      Good question, and sadly in my experience I’d have to say the answer is no. I see young teens smoking out in front of school, people in their cars puffing away, people walking their dogs of all ages. Seems that small town vs. big town makes no difference at all. I guess it’s not a constant annoyance because like you said, fewer people packed into smaller spaces, but in terms of numbers, I’d bet that the # of people who smoke is proportionally the same. I hate it too. ;-( Wish Tom would quit.

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  • laura@ladolcevitaculinary.com

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    I love your blog! I have been to France many times but one year especially will stay in my mind forever, our boys were young, when we rented a house in a little town called Ansiou. (I think that is how you spell it.) It is by Bonnievieux and Gordes in the Luberon Valley. No one spoke English and it was really fun to use my horrible French and tons of sign language! My kids did well because they took French from an early age and their young brains just adapted. One morning, someone knocked at our doo of our little place built into the city wall. It was a young boy with a soccer ball. Thereafter every morning, our sons played soccer with the locals. The World Cup final happened during that vacation. The townspeople hung a sheet on an old wall of the city and had a satellite t.v. Everyone sat on benches or brough chairs. We saw Zidane do his famous head butt that left the whole town speechless, especially my kids. You could not imagine a better vacation for our family than in that little town! It was 2006.

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  • Chris Scheuer

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    Hi! Found your blog through the comment you left a few weeks ago on The Café. How fun, love reading about your adventures and life in France. It sounds like you’re in Provence. We spent a week in Apt last fall. Such a lovely area!

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    • Diane

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      Hi Chis, thanks for stopping by! I live in the Loire Valley actually but have visited Provence and yes I agree, it really is lovely!

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  • Nadine

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    I agree with a lot of this! Although I could never see myself living in Paris, Bordeaux really appealed when we first moved over. Now that we’ve settled in a much more rural area, I can’t see us living anywhere else! Love the country walks especially 🙂

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